1. This is a B&B not a house share or else. I allow people to use my kitchen out of the goodness of my heart as it is hard to be away from home and be expected to eat out every day. Otherwise access to the kitchen would only be for breakfast or make themselves a cuppa.
2. if you had read in full the description under: 'Guest access' it clearly states that they should ask not assume they can use my kitchen and that I have allergies to spices, and that,where i can, i would be happy to help.
Had you asked I would have specified I don't eat meat.
3. This is my house and I let rooms as a B&B. I do my best to help people, however I expect to stay out of the kitchen when asked and a 'thank you' would be nice when i let people use the facilities at no extra charge.
4. B&B: "sleeping accommodation for a night and a meal in the morning, provided in guest houses and hotels". (from dictionary). Nowhere it says use of kitchen at any time of day. I expect people to sleap at night and go out during the day.Anything different (sleep during day, etc) I would expect them to be kind enough to ask in advance rather than spend all day in the room and use my kitchen.